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24条经典哲理性语句
2007-06-27 22:44



    1．记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的
　　Remember what should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten. Alter what is changeable, and accept what is mutable.
　　
　　2．能冲刷一切的除了眼泪，就是时间，以时间来推移感情，时间越长，冲突越淡，仿佛不断稀释的茶
　　Apart from tears, only time could wear everything away. While feeling is being processed by time, conflicts would be reconciled as time goes by, just like a cup of tea that is being continuously diluted.
　　
　　3．怨言是上天得至人类最大的供物，也是人类祷告中最真诚的部分
　　Complaints are the greatest offerings that God obtains from human beings, as well as the most faithful prayers human beings might utter to God.
　　
　　4．智慧的代价是矛盾。这是人生对人生观开的玩笑。
　　Wisdom appears in contradiction to itself, which is a trick life plays on philosophy of life.
　　
　　5．世上的姑娘总以为自己是骄傲的公主（除了少数极丑和少数极聪明的姑娘例外）
　　Girls always look on themselves as proud princesses, with the exception of a small number of either extremely ugly or exceedingly smart ones.
　　
　　6．如果敌人让你生气，那说明你还没有胜他的把握
　　It can be inferred that you lack confidence in a victory over your rivals from the fact that you’re irritable against them.
　　
　　7．如果朋友让你生气，那说明你仍然在意他的友情
　　From that you would get angry with your friends, we can conclude you still care about the friendship between you.
　　
　　8．令狐冲说”有些事情本身我们无法控制，只好控制自己。” 可是，他算什么！！
　　“Something is out of our control, so we have to command ourselves.” said Linghu Chong, a known character in a Chinese novel about persons adept in martial arts (武侠小说？）. Who is, however, fucking he?
　　
　　9．我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的，那些是错的，而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事，然后等待着老死。
　　Only till my natural death could I tell which of what I have been doing is right or wrong, so now I have to try to do well in everything, and then wait to die a natural death.
　　
　　10．也许有些人很可恶，有些人很卑鄙。而当我设身为他想象的时候，我才知道：他比我还可怜。所以请原谅所有你见过的人，好人或者坏人
　　Some may be wicked, and some may be despicable. Only when I put myself in their position did I know they are more miserable than I. So forgive all that you have met, no matter what kind of persons they are.
　　
　　11．鱼对水说你看不到我的眼泪，因为我在水里．水说我能感觉到你的眼泪，因为你在我心里。
　　“You couldn’t see my tears cause I am in the water.” Fish said to water.
　　“But I could feel your tears cause you are in me.” Answered water.
　　
　　12．快乐要有悲伤作陪，雨过应该就有天晴。如果雨后还是雨，如果忧伤之后还是忧伤．请让我们从容面对这离别之后的离别。 微笑地去寻找一个不可能出现的你！
　　Happiness is accompanied by sorrow, and it would turn sunny after rain as well. If rain remains after rain and sorrow remains after sorrow, please take those farewells easy, and turn to smilingly look for yourself who is never to appear.
    13．死亡教会人一切，如同考试之后公布的结果？？虽然恍然大悟，但为时晚矣！
　　Like the outcome after an exam, death makes us aware of anything, That is, it’s too late to take a tumble.
　　
　　14．你出生的时候，你哭着，周围的人笑着；你逝去的时候，你笑着，而周围的人在哭！
　　When you were born, you’re crying but lookers-on were smiling. When you are passing away, you’re smiling but lookers-on are crying.
　　
　　15．男人在结婚前觉得适合自己的女人很少，结婚后觉得适合自己的女人很多。
　　Man might think that few women fit him before his marriage, and contrarily when they get married.
　　
　　16．于千万人之中，遇见你所遇见的人；于千万年之中，时间的无涯荒野里，没有早一步，也没有晚一步，刚巧赶上了。
　　Among thousands of people, you meet those you’ve met. Through thousands of years, with the boundlessness of time, you happen to meet them, neither earlier nor a bit too late.
　　
    17．每个人都有潜在的能量，只是很容易:被习惯所掩盖，被时间所迷离,被惰性所消磨。
　　Everyone has his inherent ability( power or capacity?) which is easily concealed by habits, blurred by time, and eroded by laziness( or inertia?).
　　
　　18．人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。
　　Be sure that you have never had any regrets in your life which only lasts for a few decades. Laugh or cry as you like, and it’s meaningless to oppress yourself.
　　
　　19．《和平年代》里的话：当幻想和现实面对时，总是很痛苦的。要么你被痛苦击倒，要么你把痛苦踩在脚下。
　　While our dream is confronted with the reality, you always feel painful. Just trample on the pain, or you’ll be beat down by it.
　　
　　20．真正的爱情是不讲究热闹不讲究排场不讲究繁华更不讲究嚎头的。
　　A true love is what doesn’t strive for busyness, for extravagance, for luxury, and moreover for hokum.
　　
　　21．生命中，不断地有人离开或进入。于是，看见的，看不见了；记住的，遗忘了。生命中，不断地有得到和失落。于是，看不见的，看见了；遗忘的，记住了。 然而，看不见的，是不是就等于不存在？记住的，是不是永远不会消失？
　　There is someone that is coming or passing away in your life around the clock, so you may lose sight of those seen, and forget those remembered. There is gain and loss in your life, so you may catch sight of those unseen, and remember those forgotten. Nevertheless, doesn’t the unseen exist for sure? Will the remembered remain for ever?
　　
　　22．我们确实活得艰难，一要承受种种外部的压力，更要面对自己内心的困惑。在苦苦挣扎中，如果有人向你投以理解的目光，你会感到一种生命的暖意，或许仅有短暂的一瞥，就足以使我感奋不已。
　　It’s true that we have been leading a difficult life, for we need not only to be under various external pressures, but also to be in the face of internal perplexities. You would be affected by the warmth of life if someone gives you a understanding look during your bitter struggle. Even a mere glance would make you moved and inspired.
　　
　　23．我不去想是否能够成功,既然选择了远方,便只顾风雨兼程；我不去想,身后会不会袭来寒风冷雨,既然目标是地平线,留给世界的只能是背影。
　　I wouldn’t care success or failure, for I will only struggle ahead as long as I have been destined to the distance. I wouldn’t care the difficulties around, for what I can leave on the earth is only their view of my back since I have been marching toward the horizontal.
　　
　　24．后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪.后悔是比损失更大的损失,比错误更大的错误.所以不要后悔。
　　Penitence is something that enervates our spirit, causing a greater loss than loss itself and making a bigger mistake than mistake itself, so never regret

寻友启示(视频)
2007-05-01 21:22



選一雙合適的鞋，才能走更遠的路。
2007-04-24 21:56

    男才女貌的婚姻是品牌鞋，看上去高贵.漂亮.感觉上舒服.大方，但它的价格昂贵，经不得泥泞，需要精心保养、时时珍惜。
　　青梅竹马的婚姻是布鞋，看上去朴素无华，穿起来经济，放起来了无牵挂，感觉上轻便快捷，可一旦登堂入室，总让人感觉不大入流。
  　患难与共的婚姻是旅游鞋，它看上去奇特，穿上去灵巧。其最大的特点是历经风雨泥泞也不会脱帮掉底，且只要穿上就总是和脚抱得紧紧的。因此，越是在坎坎坷坷的人生路上，越是显出其耐用合脚的特征。
　　浪漫型的婚姻是舞鞋，它轻便、灵活、雅致，但一离开平坦光滑的特定环境，就显得极难适应，也极不实用。
　　事业型的婚姻是跑鞋，它能和脚相互帮衬、共创辉煌，但一脱离事业的跑道，鞋和脚就很难相互适应。
　　老夫少妻的婚姻是松糕鞋，穿着它虽不能长途跋涉，但却显得颇特别。
　　老妻少夫的婚姻是大傻鞋，看上去滑稽、穿起来方便、脱下去容易。不过，穿上它只能在卧室里自我感觉，如果跑到街上显摆就难免会成为话柄。 <BR><BR>　　开放型的婚姻是凉鞋，它有着极强的季节性，它能让人在情感升温的夏季，毫不犹豫地穿上它；又能让人在情感的季节变凉之后，很随意地就脱掉它。
  　红杏出墙的婚姻是拖鞋，它很好穿，又很方便，有很大的适应性，但致命的弱点是出不了大门、上不了正路、走不了多远。
　　被金钱收买的婚姻是小尺码的紧口绣花鞋，看上去挺美，但只有脚知道：感觉并不好受。
　　被强力逼迫的婚姻是大铁鞋，沉重得让人寸步难行，可要想脱掉它却要伤筋动骨、皮开肉绽、鲜血直流……
　　选择满意的婚姻如同选双满意的鞋子，重要的是鞋的尺码和脚的尺码相同，最好是什么样的脚穿什么样的鞋子。
　　舒适的鞋子养脚。但千万要记住：舒适的鞋子，不一定是最漂亮的鞋子。任何时候，我们都只能让鞋子来适应脚，而不能让脚去适应鞋子。鞋子舒服不舒服只有脚知道。上路最怕穿错鞋，婚姻最怕受折磨。如果鞋子特别挤脚，要趁着还没鞋脚两伤就赶快换上一双。
　　选一双合脚的鞋，才能走更远的路.

最好的愛情像傢俱
2007-04-22 22:38

常常被人問起，不知道跟我談戀愛的會是什麼樣的女人。
「必定很漂亮，身材要很好。」
「个性一定很獨立，不然哪受得了你這樣一年到頭在外旅行？」
「應該是日久生情、青梅竹馬那一種的。」
眾說紛紜，似乎他們都要比我更瞭解我愛上的對象。
其實我向來只有一個奇怪的標準；只要誰能和我同住在一個屋簷下，卻可以讓我甚至忘了她的存在，那人必就是我理想中的妻子。
「像是一件安靜的家具那樣。」我說。
「那女人不是太可憐了嗎？」住在倫敦的朋友，女的，聽得很不爽。
「家具不見得就是不重要的意思，」我急忙解釋，「只是跟我日常生活空間非常搭配，搭配到當我隨時在屋內走動，完全感覺不出家具的存在，才是最高境界啊！」
「可是人就是人，怎麼能像家具呢？ 難道你要那個女人都不要動嗎？」我的倫敦朋友緊追不捨。
「相反，」我說:「無論如何移動，我們對彼此的存在都感到很自在，才是最好的家具。」
我對對方而言，也應該是如此的一件家具才對。
早上起來，靜靜地煮一壺咖啡，卻不吵人清夢；後起床的人喝剩的，沒有剩的就打開冰箱，吃吃前夜的剩菜，電視開在你喜歡的頻道，而她正在細讀的報紙版面，我一點都不急著看；出了門在匆忙的地下鐵站，才突然想起她在沙發上斜靠著曬太陽的模樣，於是沒由來地覺得非常開心。
「對彼此的存在不在意，並不表示不關心。」我強調。
爭執種種，當然也是會有的，但是這種不協調，就像再怎麼四肢發達的運動員，走起路來總也有踩著自已腳的時候，而大部分的人踩到自已，是不會太在意的。
不太在意，並非不關心自已身體的痛感，而是既然同樣是自已的一部分，總會彼此原諒，自已吸收了疼痛；要換做是別人踩的，或許就會惱怒了，但是卻不曾聽說有人懲罰自已踏了右腳的左腳，因為只有一直走下去，才是最實際的辦法。一直走下去的兩個人，就是見證最好的愛情的最佳詮釋。
有一支在美國播放的黑白電視廣告片，販賣了我覺得最浪漫的追求方式。
畫面上是一個女孩在輪船邊眺望著行進中的海洋，突然有個氣喘吁吁的男孩跑過來，攤開手心露出一條銀鍊子，他說：「小姐，我想這是妳掉的。」
露出驚喜表情的女子接過鍊子，一面問：「是在哪裡撿到的？」
「內布拉斯加。」男孩說。
內布拉斯加是一個荒涼而處內陸的小州，男孩一路尾隨而來，絕對是千里迢迢，只為了還女孩一條項鍊，而他卻那樣輕描淡寫地說:「嘿，這是妳掉的。」
既不聲張也不嚷嚷，想來這兩人若在真實世界，也是會快樂的。
左腳對右腳最好的照顧，並不是讓某一隻腳重要過另一隻，而是平穩協調，右腳不需要考慮左腳會怎麼走，想多了反而笨手笨腳，這道理簡單到讓人覺得不可思議，卻又無法駁斥。
當然，前提是你懂得善待自已，否則讓另一個人當你生命的一部分，那就太可憐了。

作弊新招
2007-04-22 22:37

某班舉行期末考,40分鐘後班代交卷並告訴監考老師說:
”因班導有交代事項需公佈在黑板上”.
監考官不疑有他
只見班代寫著:
1,5,7,8,11,12,13號同學考完請找Alex老師
2,4,6,10,15號去B館集合
3,9,16,18,20,23號要清洗窗戶
其餘皆留下掃地!!!

2007-04-21的日记
2007-04-21 21:58

30岁前的男人应该
2007-04-17 00:00

1,事业永远第一
　　
  虽然金钱不是万能的,但没有钱是万万不能的,虽然这句话很俗,但绝对有道理,所以30岁之前,请把你大部分精力放在你的事业上.
　　
  2,别把钱看得太重
　　
  不要抱怨自己现在工资低,银行存款4位数以下,看不到前途,现在要做的就是努力学习,即使你文凭再高,怎么把理论运用到实践还是需要一个很长的锻炼过程,社会永远是一所最博大的大学,它让你学到的知识远比你在学校学到的重要得多,所以同样,你也别太介意学历低.30岁之前靠自己能力买车买房的人还是极少.
　　
  3,学会体谅父母
　　
  别嫌他们唠叨,等你为人父了你就知道可怜天下父母心,在他们眼里你还是个孩子,但他们真的老了,现在得你哄他们开心了,也许只要你的一个电话,一点小礼物,就可以让他们安心,很容易做到.
　　
  4,交上好朋友
　　
  朋友对你一生都影响重大,不要去结识太多酒肉朋友,至少得有一个能在关键时刻帮助你的朋友,如果遇到这么一个人,就好好把握,日后必定有用,不管他现在是富还是穷.
　　5,别太相信爱情
　　
  心中要有爱,但请别说也别相信那些琼瑶阿姨小说里面的山盟海誓,世上本无永恒,重要的是责任,但女人心海底针,心变了,一切都成枉然,你要做的就是该出手时就出手,该放手时别犹豫.30岁之前的爱情不是假的,但只是大多数人都没有能真正把握好的能力,所以学会量力而行.
　　
  6,别担心至今还保留初吻
　　
  爱情不在多而在精,别以为自己20多岁还没碰过女孩子就害怕自己永远找不到老婆.以后你会有很多机会认识女孩子,要知道这个社会虽然男人多于女人,但现实是女人其实比男人更担心这个问题.男人30一枝花,你在升值而不是贬值,成熟的爱情往往更美丽更长久,所以不要像疯狗一样看到女孩就想追,学会品味寂寞.
　　
  7,不要沉迷于任何东西
　　
  所谓玩物而丧志,网络游戏是你在出校门之前玩的,你现在没有多余的时间和精力花费到这上面,否则你透支的东西以后都得偿还.一个人要有兴趣,爱好,但请分清楚轻重.
　　
  8,年轻没有失败
　　
  不要遇到挫折就灰心,年轻人要有信心

嫁给我吧
2007-03-03 09:30

也许我爱跑车,也许我爱别墅,也许我爱提款机,
恋爱要看天气,分手要看结局,应该好好去珍惜,

也许爱看韩剧,也听爱情歌曲,所以明白这道理
既然真的爱你,就把脸贴过去,你要好好听我说

我的钱很少,我的心不变,借一颗钻石,放在你面前,嫁给我吧,就是在今天,我把我一切,交给了感觉
我的爱不少,我的心不变,用这颗钻石,换流星许愿,嫁给我吧,嫁给我一切,永远的永远,爱慢慢体验

恋爱要看天气,分手要看结局,应该好好去珍惜,
既然真的爱你,就把脸贴过去,你要好好听我说

我的钱很少,我的心不变,借一颗钻石,放在你面前,嫁给我吧,就是在今天,我把我一切,交给了感觉
我的爱不少,我的心不变,用这颗钻石,换流星许愿,嫁给我吧,嫁给我一切,永远的永远,爱慢慢体验
我的钱很少,我的心不变,借一颗钻石,放在你面前,嫁给我吧,就是在今天,我把我一切,交给了感觉
我的爱不少,我的心不变,用这颗钻石,换流星许愿,嫁给我吧,嫁给我一切,永远的永远,爱慢慢体验

赫本的美丽的秘密
2007-02-24 22:36

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.
魅力的双唇，在于亲切友善的语言。 For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
可爱的眼睛，善于探寻别人的优点。 For a slim figure, share your foodwith the hungry.
得到苗条的身影，请与饥饿的人分享你的食物。 For beautiful hair, let a child run his Ｏr her fingers through it once a day.
美丽的秀发，在于每天有孩子的手指穿过它。 For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone.
优美的姿态，来源于与知识同行而不是独行。
People, even more than things, have to be restored, revived, reclaimed Ａnd redeemed; never throw out anyone.
人之所以為人，是必須充滿精力、自我悔改、自我反省、自我成長；並非向人抱怨。 Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you''ll find them at the end of each of your arms. As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.
如果你在任何时候需要一只帮助之手，你可以在你自己的每一条手臂下面找到它。在年老之后，你会发现你有两只手，一只用来帮助自己，另一只用来帮助别人。
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, Ｏr the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.
女人的美丽不在于她的穿着，她的身材，或者她的发型。女人的美丽一定从她的眼睛中找到，因为那是通往她的心灵深处的窗口，“爱”居住的地方。
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode, but the true beauty in a woman is reflected inhe r soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows.
女人的美丽不在于外表，真正的美丽折射于一个女人的灵魂深处。在于亲切的给与，和热情。 The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years.
一个女人的美丽随着岁月而增长。 Please send this to five phenomenal women today. If you do, something good will happen
... that is, you will boost another woman''s self esteem.
请将本文传递，你会发现有一些事情发生……那就是，你帮助其他女人重塑了自尊

贝多芬死于铅中毒 Lead Poisoning
2007-02-24 22:34

贝多芬(Ludwig van Beethoven)是历史上最著名的作曲家之一。他创作了很多世界上最伟大的古典音乐。1827年贝多芬去世，享年57岁。
I''m Faith Lapidus with the VOA Special English HEALTH REPORT.
Ludwig van Beethoven is remembered as one of the most famous composers in history. He wrote some of the world''s greatest classical music. Beethoven lived only fifty-seven years. He died in eighteen twenty-seven.
Recently, tests confirmed that Beethoven died of severe lead poisoning. The United States Department of Energy''s Argonne National Laboratory supervised the testing. Bill Walsh directed the Beethoven Research Project. He is the chief scientist at the Pfeiffer Treatment Center in Warrenville, Illinois.
Mister Walsh Ａnd his team examined pieces of bone belonging to Beethoven. They found a large amount of lead in the pieces, Ｏr bone fragments. They said the lead levels were equal to those found in pieces of his hair in earlier studies.
Genetic tests confirmed the bone fragments Ａnd hair came from Beethoven. The researchers also examined bone fragments from someone else who lived during the same period. Both were from the top of the head, Ｏr skull. The fragments from Beethoven had more lead than those from the other person.
The study found no measurable levels of cadmium Ｏr mercury in the fragments from Beethoven''s skull. Both elements had been thought to be possible causes of his health problems.
Beethoven was sick for much of his life. He experienced stomach problems Ａnd a change of personality when he was around twenty years old. He also was easily angered, Ａnd suffered from depression Ａnd hearing loss. His health problems became worse as Beethoven grew older.
Mister Walsh says severe stomach pain is a sign of lead poisoning. He said the lead levels found in Beethoven''s skull suggest the metal may have been present in his body for many years.
Mister Walsh said there is no strong evidence that lead poisoning was a cause of Beethoven''s hearing loss, Ｏr deafness. He said there have been recognized cases of deafness caused by lead poisoning. But he said this is very rare.
Ludwig van Beethoven visited many doctors throughout his life to find a cure for his health problems. Beethoven wrote a letter to a friend before he died. He urged researchers to examine his body after he died so that other people would not have to suffer as he did.
This VOA Special English HEALTH REPORT was written by Lawan Davis. This is Faith Lapidus.

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