In Many cases ,We only Need the below things ,i will outline some samples for your reference :
1. some times just need to stop our steps and take care of the peoples who are you should to pay attention to , of course it should contained youself .
2. some times just need only a warm embrace , a sweet kiss , a small gift ,a sentence of words with your kindly and sincere greetings .
3. other needed that you can give it to others in your limited ability or it should by your efforts !
The below are some stories about this and that all for you understanding :
I received a gift from a frend lived in canada,at the day it was 10 years of our wedding anniversary , the gift is a piece of disc named "Don't let the birds fly away " i collect the gift as a souvenir ,becuase i don't have the habit with play the grams .
One day , 8 years old of my son plays with game in my study ,the disc was been found by his playing.
After his playing ,my son said to me :"mum , here is a bird , it may fly away ,if it was the truth ,i can't play the game again ,i opened the my computer and performed the CD was , under his cues .
At that time ,i really knew that formerly it's a sofware of the game and the game adapt to all the adults, it cost 85 million dollars , i saw that a very shining building come out of my eyes when i runed the game, it has all the furnishings that it should to have . you can as the master of the building and enjoy the lives when you login .
if you want to play e a golf,you can go to the golf course .
if you want to read a book ,you can go to the study .
if you want to have a cup of coffee , you can ask a servant for service ,
if you want to hold a dancing party , you can invite the most popular media stars in the 100 top class . include Madanna .
if you want to have a tour, the cars are all ready for you !
when you get in the car ,go along the road ,you can go to Eqypt , France , China,and all in all ,wherever that you want !
if you have a lover ,you still can have a cryptic appointment with her or he and pay a visit to seasides or prairie of the Columbia.
All in all , you can get everythings that you want and you can do it as your ways !
but there is some different from the reality that a bird flying in the building ,a basket is been hold in its mouth , it from the parlour fly to the bedroom ,then fly to the study and fly to the dinning room ,at last ,flying all the corners that the building has !
The bird have a feature is that whether you are in travel ; Remain at home for reading or handle with the bussiness in your corporation, you can't forget to put somethings into the basket , if you forget about it , in a minute , it will fiy out of the window , once , the case comes true , there is a picture will arised on the screen :
the shining building will be topple down and the weeds will growing frondently , in the setting sun,
a lone figure will to disappear away in the dark conditions , so ,what thing shall we put it into the basket ; the bird won't fly away and the shining building won't topple down ?
there has a menu in the game , its contained 152 kinds of articles for daily use and everyday activities ,such as : money ,flower , weep ,kiss .and so on.
The game disigned by Hrihcex and cost 3 years of time , the designer collect a thing from 500 thousand pairs and they loved each others for 50 years and more , every kinds of the activity is according to their ballot papers and all the ballot papers give it different time value of money , the time range from 3 minutes to a month . there has no indication on it , it all decide by the players .
I am deeply attracted by the program , i will play the game when i'm free , at first , the shinging building frequently disappear s from the screen ,as a result of i don't know what shall i put into the basket .
once,i really don't kown how can i deal with the case ,i casually put a kiss into the basket , a unintended consequence appears in my eyes that i must remain at the big study to read a book for the whole afternoon.even, there have several times,i should put the basket on my desk ,then, jump into the basket for a short sleeping.
once , i given an intimate embrace and adieu ,then i paid a visit to a historic site of Gumaya city of maxico ,it's named chichen Itza , after a half of month , there have a more unintended case appeared in my eyes ,the bird still at home and given me a warm welcome to me when i arrived home .
which kind of the bird ? i give it the money ,it only stay at home for 3 minutes ,when i give a piece of flower,it can stay at home for 3 hours and more !
At last ,i finally find that it is a marriage-bird,and it has many unconspicuous saviours.
A slight kiss, a sweet smile, a thoughtful sentence of words , a short-lived adieu ,they are all can remain it at home .
Nowadays, i can expertly play the game which more and more feel that it's not just only a game ,but that they are all the gnosises and discoveries from 500,000 pairs fo golden wedding for the elderly's lives. it tells us that an insignificant of praise, a cup of hot tea ,a piece of rose (only cost 10 dollars),just those insignificant of things has a very marvelously force to moisten our marriages .
Currently,a freind was married ,i sent the CD as a gift to him , i thought that i should let the more peoples had a profit from the game and get a little principle from their marriages .
Take your heart to your home ,Don't sell the most important essence in your life to the corporations and remain the Trash to your family !
Don't misplace the blessed and warm hands to the right place !
Most all the peoples are easy to consider many aspects of the thing , just because they are all fear to make a mistake of decision when they choose their partners , they will be out of their wits , he regret for doing that all lifetime who makes the mistakes.
Just like a noble 's winner Shavian says :" just at here and now ,perhaps, there are 20,000 peoples fit your requirment and as your partner , it's only by the meet who comes early , if you have a heavy emotion and great confidence to each others before the second idear partner comes . if you not foster a strong relationship with the former, the latter will be as your friend , that your emotion will be rocking and changeable . you will beginning the really happiness and end the gipsydom untill you have a great emotion with one of your ideal partners ."
Fall in love with sb,it's that unneeded the struggles , it just depend on " chance" ,that all schemed by the god, but that , lastingly fall in love with sb, it's should depend on " struggles". in the amatory management , comunication , understanding , forgiveness and self-contorl etc, they are all the element of the smooth management . many peoples always pay many perplexities and vexations on the "chance" , many ideas always come out of their minds , but they ignore the most importance of management ability of the emotions .
So, Don't to ask who is my Mr . Right or asking for several times that which degree i can achievement by my struggles and how can i try my best ? if you don't bring up your the ability of management the happiness yet , even if your MR. Right really appears at your side , you still lost the happiness and live in the wondering and regretful condifions , is this just the many experiences and attitudes to "nothingness of loving " ?
Currently, if you have a eternal partner accompanies with your side, Don't casually and half-heartedly hesitate anythings , we ofen difficult to find a trap in the emotions , is this just the ignore the risk of the peples who close your side , aslo like the economic principle says :"the rule of diminishing marginal utility " , it's easy to ignore the peoples who get together with your side for a long time ,conversely the new "chance" is always lovely .
It's hard to aviod to prevent the firctional and unintended harms when we face to emotion , and that , who let us to feel many hurts is just always companies. but the news , on the one hand, it's no chance to harm ; on the other hand, painstakingly try to ingratiate hiself with you. so , it's just only remained beatiful things in your eyes whatever your look ;conversely , the olds , it's only a trash whatever your look . but ,don't to forget that there are many uncertain unkonwn numbers company with the news , conversely ,you will find that there have many hard-won things ,such as , familiarity feeling, confirmability , reliablity . Don't casually lost yourself in the incidental "opportunity", that led to misplace your blessed and temperance hands. to the right place .
So, Shavian's words want to remind the lovers not to take unnecessary pains to study and insignificant to seek the only ones ,it should put the more energies on the abilty of how can i manage the happiness , simultaneously, it also reminds us
that " even there is an river ,it's only a drop of water for me ". if you fortunately meet a hard-won partner ,don't half- hearted again ,Because , we never know when can we meet the severals of the 20, 000 of peopes in our lifetime , so ,we should to know and cherish the fortunes that we have , enjoy the current times , Don't consider too much !