1) 单纯的喜悦
有一个小女孩每天都从家里走路去上学。一天早上天气不太好，云层渐渐变厚，到了下午时风吹得更急，不久开始有闪电、打雷、下大雨。小女孩的妈妈很担心，她担心小女孩会被打雷吓著，甚至被雷打到。雷雨下得愈来愈大，闪电像一把锐利的剑刺破天空，小女孩的妈妈赶紧开著她的车，沿著上学的路线去找小女孩，看到自己的小女儿一个人走在街上，却发现每次闪电时，她都停下脚步、抬头往上看、并露出微笑。看了许久，妈妈终於忍不住叫住她的孩子，问她说：
「你在做什么啊？」
她说：
「上帝刚才帮我照相，所以我要笑啊！
1) Pure joy
A little girl every day to walk home from school. One morning the weather was not so good, gradually thickening clouds, the wind in the afternoon when the more urgent, soon began to lightning, thunder, heavy rain. The little girl's mother is very worried, worried about her little girl would be frightened by thunder, and even hit mine. Under a growing storm, lightning like a sharp sword piercing the sky, the little girl's mother quickly drove her car along the route to go to school to find the little girl, to see their youngest daughter of a person walking in the On the street, they found that every time lightning when she stopped, the rise up, and smile. Read for a long time, my mother finally stopped could not help her children, she asked:
"Ah, what are you doing?"
She said: ? "God help me just camera, so I have to laugh ah!
(2) 失去与拥有
有位企业家在商场上有著惊人的成就。当他在事业达到巅峰的时候，有一天陪同他的父亲，到一家高贵的餐厅用餐，现场有一位琴艺不凡的小提琴手正在为大家演奏。这位企业家在聆赏之余，想起当年自己也曾学过琴，而且几乎为之疯狂，便对他父亲说：「如果我从前好好学琴的话，现在也许就会在这儿演奏了。「是呀，孩子，」他父亲回答，「不过那样的话，你现在就不会在这儿用餐了。」
(2) and have lost
There are entrepreneurs in business has a staggering achievement. When he reached the pinnacle in their careers, one day, accompanied by his father, a noble restaurant meals, on-site Qin Yi, a violinist for the extraordinary play. The reward entrepreneurs in the Masters, then think of himself studied Qin, and was almost crazy, then his father said: "If I had a good group of piano, now we might have played here." Yes, children, "his father replied," In that case, you would not have a meal here. "
默想：
我们常为失去的机会或成就而嗟叹，
但往往忘了为现在所拥有的感恩。
Meditation:
We often lose the opportunity for success or Jie Tan,
But often forgotten for now owned by Thanksgiving.
(3) 知道自己有限的聪明
有一个聪明的男孩，有一天妈妈带著他到杂货店去买东西，老板看到这个可爱的小孩，就打开一罐糖果，要小男孩自己拿一把糖果。但是这个男孩却没有任何的动作。几次的邀请之後，老板亲自抓了一大把糖果放进他的口袋中。回到家中，母亲很好奇的问小男孩，为什没有自己去抓糖果而要老板抓 呢？小男孩回答得很妙：「因为我的手比较小呀！而老板的手比较大，所以他拿的一定比我拿的多很多！」
(3) know that they limited the smart
There is a smart boy, one day with his mother to the grocery store to buy things, the boss see this lovely child, open a can of candy to a little boy holding his own candy. But the boy did not have any action. At the invitation several times, the boss personally take a lot of candy into his pocket. At home, his mother is very curious little boy asked, even catching candy does not have its own efforts employers have to do? Very wonderful little boy answered: "Because I have small hands it! Boss and hands more, so he must get more than I am holding a lot more!"
默想：
这是一个聪明的孩子，他知道自己的有限，而更重要的，他也明白别人比自己强。
凡事不只靠自己的力量，学会适时的依靠他人，是一种谦卑，更是一种聪明。
Meditation:
This is a smart child, he knew that his own limited and more importantly, he also understand that other people than their own strong.
Everything does not rely solely on its own strength and learn to rely on other people's time, is a humble, but also a smart.
(4) 听的艺术
美国知名主持人 “林克莱特” 一天访问一名小朋友，问他说： 「你长大後想要当甚么呀？」小朋友天真的回答：「嗯…我要当飞机的驾驶员！」林克莱特接著问：「如果有一天，你的飞机飞到太平洋上空所有引擎都 熄火了，你会怎么办？」小朋友想了 想 「我会先告诉坐在飞机上的人绑好安全带，然後我挂上我的降落伞跳出去。」当在现场的观众笑的东倒西歪时，林克莱特继续著注视这孩子，想看他是不是自作聪明的家伙。没想到，接著孩子的两行热泪夺眶而出，这才使的林克莱特发觉这孩子的悲悯之情远非笔墨所能形容。於是林克莱特问他说：「为甚么要这么做？」小孩的答案透露出一个孩子真挚的想法：「我要去拿燃料，我还要回来！！」「我还要回来！」。
(4) the art of listening
Well-known host of the United States, "Linklater," the children of a one-day visit, asked him: "You want to be when they grow up what?" Innocent children replied: "... ah, I would like to be a driver of the plane!" Lin Klettgau then asked: "If one day, your plane flew over the Pacific Ocean all the engines are turned off, how would you do?" The children thought, "I will tell the person sitting in the plane Banghao seat belt, and then I put up my parachute to jump out. "When the audience laughed at the scene of Dongdaoxiwai, Linklater continues to watch the child, he would like to see is not a wise guy. Unexpectedly, followed by two lines of children's tears eyes, so that's what Linklater found that the child's feeling compassion are far from pen and ink description. Linklater said he then asked: "Why should we do?" The answer revealed the child of a child's sincere thoughts: "I would like to get fuel, I would also like to come back!!" "I would also like to come back!."
你听到别人说话时......你真的听懂他说的意思吗？你懂吗？如果不懂，就请听别人说完吧，这就是「听的艺术」
1. 听话不要听一半。
2. 还有，不要把自己的意思，投射到别人所说的话上头。
You hear people say when you really understand ...... He said that mean? You understand? If you do not, then please listen to other people finish it, and this is "the art of listening"
1. Do not listen to half of the obedient.
2. Also, do not own, projected onto other people's words on top.
(5) 散步的启示
上帝给我一个任务，叫我牵一只蜗牛去散步。我不能走得太快，蜗牛已经尽力爬，每次总是挪那 一点点。我催它，我唬 它，我责备它，蜗牛用抱歉的眼光看著我，彷佛说：「人家已经尽了全力！」我拉它，我扯，我甚至想踢它，蜗牛受了伤，它流著汗，喘著气，往 前爬真奇怪，为什 上帝叫我牵一只蜗牛去散步？上帝啊！为什么？」天上一片安静。「唉！也许上帝去了抓蜗牛！」好吧！松手吧！反正上帝不管了，我还管什么？任蜗牛往前爬，我在後面生闷气。咦？我闻到花香，原来这边有个花园。我感到微风吹来， 原来夜里的风这 温柔。慢著！我听到鸟声，我听到虫鸣，我看到满天的星斗多亮丽。咦？以前怎么没有这些体会？
(5) Walking Inspiration
God gave me a mission, led me to take a walk to a snail. I can not go too fast, snails have worked hard to climb, each always that little bit of Norway. I urge it, I fool it, I blame it, sorry to use snail look at me as if said: "The people have made their best efforts!" I pull it, pull me, I would like to play it, snail injured, Khan, a stream it, panting, crawling forward really strange, even for God told me to go for a walk led by a snail? Ah God! Why? "The sky was quiet. "Oh! God may be to grasp a snail!" All right! You let go! In any case, regardless of God, I control what? Any snail crawling forward, I Shengmen Qi in the back. Why? I smell the flowers that have a garden here. I feel the breeze blowing, it was the night's gentle wind. Wait! I heard the birds, I heard Chong Ming, I have seen many bright stars of the sky. Why? Did not understand how these before?
我忽然想起来，莫非是我弄错了！原来上帝叫蜗牛牵我去散步。你找到你的蜗牛了吗？偶尔出去散散步吧！
I think all of a sudden, Could it be that I made a mistake! God had led me to a snail called for a walk. You find your snail it? Occasionally go out for a walk now!
(6) 你真的可以很自在
米兰昆德拉有一本书叫「生活在他方」，我对这五个字有很好的联想，我的生活总是在远方，都在想：如果明天我有钱，我就可以......。
但是
如果你现在赚少钱不快乐，就算你有再多的钱，我保证你也不会快乐；
如果你一个人的时候不会自得其乐，即使嫁了人，娶了老婆，别人跟你一起一样不快乐；
如果现在不懂得享受生活，未来也不会享受生活。
有人问什么叫做自由，所谓的自由就是：
你想要拒绝一个人的约会， 已经不需要任何理由，你有权力过自己要过的生活，有权力去自己要去的地方。
其实生活很简单。男人跟女人都很喜欢在自己的人生设一个deadline，比如说：
我25岁一定要结婚，
26岁一定生孩子，
30岁时一定要一男一女，
31岁的时候一定要有房子，
所以很多决定就很草率。
如果刚开始你找的那个人就不对，往後再怎么努力都不对；
有时候，我们常常会觉得婚结了，所有问题就没了，
那如果结了婚还有问题，就赶快把小孩生一生，
其实你的问题在这个阶段没解决，在下个阶段只会变大；
你对未来不用期待太多，期待太多......老实说挫折感会很深，不如看看你现在做什么事情，会让你觉得很自在，吸收到很多的东西，那个时候你才会觉得人生真的很充实。
另外，一个人如果太努力在活给别人看，就会痛苦得不得了，
今天如果你相信自己做得还不错，不在乎别人怎么看你的时候，你真的可以很自在。
(6) you really can be very comfortable
Milan Kundera has a book called "living in the other," I think the words have a very good, my life is always in the distance, thinking: If I have money tomorrow, I will be able to ... ....
But
If you earn less money is not happy, even if you have more money, I guarantee you will not be happy;
If you have a lot of people will not, even if married, Qulelaopo, with others like you unhappy;
If we do not know how to enjoy life in the future will not enjoy life.
Some people ask what freedom is the so-called freedom:
You want a person's refusal to date, has no need for any reason, you have to go through an extended power over their own lives, have the right to their own destination.
In fact, life is simple.
Women like men with their own life for a deadline, for example:
I am 25 years old to get married
26-year-old must have children,
At the age of 30 must be a man and a woman,
When 31-year-old must have a house,
So a lot of very hasty decision.
If you just start looking for that person's not right, no matter how hard they try again later on;
Sometimes, we often feel that the marriage knot, not all the problems,
If those problems are married, as soon as possible on the child a lifetime of Health,
In fact, your question at this stage not resolved in the next phase of the only major change;
You do not have to look forward to the future too much, too much looking forward to frustration ...... will be very honest, it is better to see you do anything you feel very comfortable, to absorb a lot of things, then you Will feel that life is really very substantial.
In addition, if a person is too hard to live in someone else, would be a very, very painful,
Today, if you believe they do well, do not care how other people look at you, you really can be very comfortable.
