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生活的启示Life Inspiration
2008-12-27 23:41
| 1) 单纯的喜悦 有一个小女孩每天都从家里走路去上学。一天早上天气不太好，云层渐渐变厚，到了下午时风吹得更急，不久开始有闪电、打雷、下大雨。小女孩的妈妈很担心，她担心小女孩会被打雷吓著，甚至被雷打到。雷雨下得愈来愈大，闪电像一把锐利的剑刺破天空，小女孩的妈妈赶紧开著她的车，沿著上学的路线去找小女孩，看到自己的小女儿一个人走在街上，却发现每次闪电时，她都停下脚步、抬头往上看、并露出微笑。看了许久，妈妈终於忍不住叫住她的孩子，问她说： 「你在做什么啊？」 她说： 「上帝刚才帮我照相，所以我要笑啊！ 1) Pure joy A little girl every day to walk home from school. One morning the weather was not so good, gradually thickening clouds, the wind in the afternoon when the more urgent, soon began to lightning, thunder, heavy rain. The little girl's mother is very worried, worried about her little girl would be frightened by thunder, and even hit mine. Under a growing storm, lightning like a sharp sword piercing the sky, the little girl's mother quickly drove her car along the route to go to school to find the little girl, to see their youngest daughter of a person walking in the On the street, they found that every time lightning when she stopped, the rise up, and smile. Read for a long time, my mother finally stopped could not help her children, she asked: "Ah, what are you doing?" She said: ? "God help me just camera, so I have to laugh ah! (2) 失去与拥有 有位企业家在商场上有著惊人的成就。当他在事业达到巅峰的时候，有一天陪同他的父亲，到一家高贵的餐厅用餐，现场有一位琴艺不凡的小提琴手正在为大家演奏。这位企业家在聆赏之余，想起当年自己也曾学过琴，而且几乎为之疯狂，便对他父亲说：「如果我从前好好学琴的话，现在也许就会在这儿演奏了。「是呀，孩子，」他父亲回答，「不过那样的话，你现在就不会在这儿用餐了。」 (2) and have lost There are entrepreneurs in business has a staggering achievement. When he reached the pinnacle in their careers, one day, accompanied by his father, a noble restaurant meals, on-site Qin Yi, a violinist for the extraordinary play. The reward entrepreneurs in the Masters, then think of himself studied Qin, and was almost crazy, then his father said: "If I had a good group of piano, now we might have played here." Yes, children, "his father replied," In that case, you would not have a meal here. " 默想： 我们常为失去的机会或成就而嗟叹， 但往往忘了为现在所拥有的感恩。 Meditation: We often lose the opportunity for success or Jie Tan, But often forgotten for now owned by Thanksgiving. (3) 知道自己有限的聪明 有一个聪明的男孩，有一天妈妈带著他到杂货店去买东西，老板看到这个可爱的小孩，就打开一罐糖果，要小男孩自己拿一把糖果。但是这个男孩却没有任何的动作。几次的邀请之後，老板亲自抓了一大把糖果放进他的口袋中。回到家中，母亲很好奇的问小男孩，为什没有自己去抓糖果而要老板抓 呢？小男孩回答得很妙：「因为我的手比较小呀！而老板的手比较大，所以他拿的一定比我拿的多很多！」 (3) know that they limited the smart There is a smart boy, one day with his mother to the grocery store to buy things, the boss see this lovely child, open a can of candy to a little boy holding his own candy. But the boy did not have any action. At the invitation several times, the boss personally take a lot of candy into his pocket. At home, his mother is very curious little boy asked, even catching candy does not have its own efforts employers have to do? Very wonderful little boy answered: "Because I have small hands it! Boss and hands more, so he must get more than I am holding a lot more!" 默想： 这是一个聪明的孩子，他知道自己的有限，而更重要的，他也明白别人比自己强。 凡事不只靠自己的力量，学会适时的依靠他人，是一种谦卑，更是一种聪明。 Meditation: This is a smart child, he knew that his own limited and more importantly, he also understand that other people than their own strong. Everything does not rely solely on its own strength and learn to rely on other people's time, is a humble, but also a smart. (4) 听的艺术 美国知名主持人 “林克莱特” 一天访问一名小朋友，问他说： 「你长大後想要当甚么呀？」小朋友天真的回答：「嗯…我要当飞机的驾驶员！」林克莱特接著问：「如果有一天，你的飞机飞到太平洋上空所有引擎都 熄火了，你会怎么办？」小朋友想了 想 「我会先告诉坐在飞机上的人绑好安全带，然後我挂上我的降落伞跳出去。」当在现场的观众笑的东倒西歪时，林克莱特继续著注视这孩子，想看他是不是自作聪明的家伙。没想到，接著孩子的两行热泪夺眶而出，这才使的林克莱特发觉这孩子的悲悯之情远非笔墨所能形容。於是林克莱特问他说：「为甚么要这么做？」小孩的答案透露出一个孩子真挚的想法：「我要去拿燃料，我还要回来！！」「我还要回来！」。 (4) the art of listening Well-known host of the United States, "Linklater," the children of a one-day visit, asked him: "You want to be when they grow up what?" Innocent children replied: "... ah, I would like to be a driver of the plane!" Lin Klettgau then asked: "If one day, your plane flew over the Pacific Ocean all the engines are turned off, how would you do?" The children thought, "I will tell the person sitting in the plane Banghao seat belt, and then I put up my parachute to jump out. "When the audience laughed at the scene of Dongdaoxiwai, Linklater continues to watch the child, he would like to see is not a wise guy. Unexpectedly, followed by two lines of children's tears eyes, so that's what Linklater found that the child's feeling compassion are far from pen and ink description. Linklater said he then asked: "Why should we do?" The answer revealed the child of a child's sincere thoughts: "I would like to get fuel, I would also like to come back!!" "I would also like to come back!." 你听到别人说话时......你真的听懂他说的意思吗？你懂吗？如果不懂，就请听别人说完吧，这就是「听的艺术」 1. 听话不要听一半。 2. 还有，不要把自己的意思，投射到别人所说的话上头。 You hear people say when you really understand ...... He said that mean? You understand? If you do not, then please listen to other people finish it, and this is "the art of listening" 1. Do not listen to half of the obedient. 2. Also, do not own, projected onto other people's words on top. (5) 散步的启示 上帝给我一个任务，叫我牵一只蜗牛去散步。我不能走得太快，蜗牛已经尽力爬，每次总是挪那 一点点。我催它，我唬 它，我责备它，蜗牛用抱歉的眼光看著我，彷佛说：「人家已经尽了全力！」我拉它，我扯，我甚至想踢它，蜗牛受了伤，它流著汗，喘著气，往 前爬真奇怪，为什 上帝叫我牵一只蜗牛去散步？上帝啊！为什么？」天上一片安静。「唉！也许上帝去了抓蜗牛！」好吧！松手吧！反正上帝不管了，我还管什么？任蜗牛往前爬，我在後面生闷气。咦？我闻到花香，原来这边有个花园。我感到微风吹来， 原来夜里的风这 温柔。慢著！我听到鸟声，我听到虫鸣，我看到满天的星斗多亮丽。咦？以前怎么没有这些体会？ (5) Walking Inspiration God gave me a mission, led me to take a walk to a snail. I can not go too fast, snails have worked hard to climb, each always that little bit of Norway. I urge it, I fool it, I blame it, sorry to use snail look at me as if said: "The people have made their best efforts!" I pull it, pull me, I would like to play it, snail injured, Khan, a stream it, panting, crawling forward really strange, even for God told me to go for a walk led by a snail? Ah God! Why? "The sky was quiet. "Oh! God may be to grasp a snail!" All right! You let go! In any case, regardless of God, I control what? Any snail crawling forward, I Shengmen Qi in the back. Why? I smell the flowers that have a garden here. I feel the breeze blowing, it was the night's gentle wind. Wait! I heard the birds, I heard Chong Ming, I have seen many bright stars of the sky. Why? Did not understand how these before? 我忽然想起来，莫非是我弄错了！原来上帝叫蜗牛牵我去散步。你找到你的蜗牛了吗？偶尔出去散散步吧！ I think all of a sudden, Could it be that I made a mistake! God had led me to a snail called for a walk. You find your snail it? Occasionally go out for a walk now! (6) 你真的可以很自在 米兰昆德拉有一本书叫「生活在他方」，我对这五个字有很好的联想，我的生活总是在远方，都在想：如果明天我有钱，我就可以......。 但是 如果你现在赚少钱不快乐，就算你有再多的钱，我保证你也不会快乐； 如果你一个人的时候不会自得其乐，即使嫁了人，娶了老婆，别人跟你一起一样不快乐； 如果现在不懂得享受生活，未来也不会享受生活。 有人问什么叫做自由，所谓的自由就是： 你想要拒绝一个人的约会， 已经不需要任何理由，你有权力过自己要过的生活，有权力去自己要去的地方。 其实生活很简单。男人跟女人都很喜欢在自己的人生设一个deadline，比如说： 我25岁一定要结婚， 26岁一定生孩子， 30岁时一定要一男一女， 31岁的时候一定要有房子， 所以很多决定就很草率。 如果刚开始你找的那个人就不对，往後再怎么努力都不对； 有时候，我们常常会觉得婚结了，所有问题就没了， 那如果结了婚还有问题，就赶快把小孩生一生， 其实你的问题在这个阶段没解决，在下个阶段只会变大； 你对未来不用期待太多，期待太多......老实说挫折感会很深，不如看看你现在做什么事情，会让你觉得很自在，吸收到很多的东西，那个时候你才会觉得人生真的很充实。 另外，一个人如果太努力在活给别人看，就会痛苦得不得了， 今天如果你相信自己做得还不错，不在乎别人怎么看你的时候，你真的可以很自在。 (6) you really can be very comfortable Milan Kundera has a book called "living in the other," I think the words have a very good, my life is always in the distance, thinking: If I have money tomorrow, I will be able to ... .... But If you earn less money is not happy, even if you have more money, I guarantee you will not be happy; If you have a lot of people will not, even if married, Qulelaopo, with others like you unhappy; If we do not know how to enjoy life in the future will not enjoy life. Some people ask what freedom is the so-called freedom: You want a person's refusal to date, has no need for any reason, you have to go through an extended power over their own lives, have the right to their own destination. In fact, life is simple. Women like men with their own life for a deadline, for example: I am 25 years old to get married 26-year-old must have children, At the age of 30 must be a man and a woman, When 31-year-old must have a house, So a lot of very hasty decision. If you just start looking for that person's not right, no matter how hard they try again later on; Sometimes, we often feel that the marriage knot, not all the problems, If those problems are married, as soon as possible on the child a lifetime of Health, In fact, your question at this stage not resolved in the next phase of the only major change; You do not have to look forward to the future too much, too much looking forward to frustration ...... will be very honest, it is better to see you do anything you feel very comfortable, to absorb a lot of things, then you Will feel that life is really very substantial. In addition, if a person is too hard to live in someone else, would be a very, very painful, Today, if you believe they do well, do not care how other people look at you, you really can be very comfortable. |
方向
2008-12-17 22:00
| 最近很喜欢坐车，也许是坐的相对比较多的缘故吧，以前听人说，坐车是受罪，但我不觉得，不管是坐着，还是站着，因为那个时候可以自己一个人静静的思考，思考着以前的生活，思考着现在的自己，思考着未来的方向，就算什么都不想，呆呆的望着窗外，或看路边的靓女，或看路边的风景，或看路边所正在进行的事情，就算什么也不看，光发呆，也是一种享受，因为没有会嘲笑在车上发呆的人们，也许最近坐车的缘故，我想得比较多，一个突如其来，很有创意的想法已经在我的脑海里浮现，也许我以后的事业会以此而起步，以后的生活会因此而更有意义，现在这个社会，做什么都赚钱，又做什么都不赚钱，但是我对自己这个构思还颇满意，很适合自己现在这个状态，你一定想知道是什么，呵呵，卖个关子，暂时保密。 |
思念
2008-12-11 20:55
| 不知道从何时起，我的生活里又有了思念这个习惯了，久违了，这种感觉，从来都不曾相信命中注定的自己，居然现在正在体验着，却是非常幸福的，一切都是因为她的出现，老天的安排我无法预知，也无法抵挡，来了，我真的很开心，一切都是因为她的出现，此刻的我，激情澎湃，此刻的我，斗志昂扬，此刻的我，知道了未来的方向，一切都是因为她的出现，我不是一个冲动的人，我所做的事情都会经过深思熟虑，所以，别怀疑，我会成功的！我会让你幸福的！一切都是因为你的出现，我的生活又开始有了思念，我很幸福的想你！ |
经典情书
2008-09-29 10:59
| 我就稀罕上了你，真的！我可以发誓，骗你我生小孩没肚脐眼，出门就被车撞死，不过我估计你也不忍心，我死了你可咋办！今天我终于鼓足勇气给你写了这封信，希望你能明白我的心。下面是我特意为你作的一首诗，写的很一般，只是有点通俗现代主义的气息，也是那天肚子不好蹲马桶上想出来的，勉强代表我一半的水平吧。 大海啊！你全是水 骏马啊！你四条腿 美女啊！你说你多美 鼻子下面居然长着嘴 还记得相逢的那刻天气死拉的热 你美毙宋丹丹的身影一下迷住了我 咋样形容你在我心中的印象啊 大概像是个去了毛的白天鹅 我这心呀 开始哐当哐当地跳个不停 整个人如同抓瞎了一样难过 难道就像书上说的那样啊 我已经上了爱情的大贼车 啊！美女 你爱不爱我 我的条件真的很不错 父母是处级干部呀 我他妈也算是个帅哥 咱们搞对象是多么的浪漫啊 死蛤蟆终于泡上了老天鹅 小兰，你看了我写的诗是不是特心动，觉得我贼有才华，我估计也是。其实我从见到你第一天也疯狂地爱上了你，为了你我戒了烟戒了酒，听说这些东西影响某种功能。也不再偷窥对面女生寝室，虽然和她们现在成天拉着窗帘也有一定关系，但主要还是因为你，因为我打听出你并不住那栋楼，可见我爱你之深。小兰，凭我的扁扁才华和你的超级美貌，我们一定是令人羡慕的一对，连梁山伯与朱丽叶也比不上我们，你是不是也觉得我们特般配？ |
当爱情来了
2008-09-29 06:59
| 爱情，这个词对于我来说既熟悉又陌生，熟悉的是每天都有人谈论着，每天都有人在进行着，看到了快乐，痛苦，看到了轰轰烈烈，平平淡淡．然而陌生的是自己，自己被动的态度，自己犹豫的心理，自己想当然的大道理，让自己穿着厚厚的表面武装与它陌生为界！改变吧 |
如果我是你
2008-07-01 11:43
| 今天的标题有些意思，如果我是你，那么有多少人这样想过呢？大部分的人都活在主观的世界里面，很少有人真的换位思考，想想别人为什么会这样，为什么有这样的行为，心态又是如何，如果真的有想过这些，也许就会少很多误会，从客观上去做事情也会使自己胸襟开阔的 |
人生目标
2008-06-30 13:21
偶尔和朋友们聊起，人生目标，大部分的都比较茫然，有的说没有想过，有的说开心就好，有的说当老板，有的说实现财务自由，其实听着他们的回答可以看出对人生的态度，对自己的态度，太多人因为社会的现实而将自己的定位越降越低，甚至到了让人心痛的地步，态度真的很重要！那么你是否又屡遭挫折而激情不减，还是不见呢？赶快行动吧，为自己定一个人生目标并列下详细计划，努力实现每一步，你可以的！ |
谁是不甘心的消极者?
2008-06-07 08:12
| 有时候人总是在扮演着这样的角色,看着别人的成功觉得很不服,但是要真的自己去做的时候又前怕狼后怕虎的,我觉得做事情不要过于谨慎,任何一件事情它都是有风险的,就好象在洁白的墙上有一个黑点,一般人第一眼看到黑点便否定了很多了,但是你看不到其他地方很白吗? |
成长寓言
2008-06-06 10:58
| 一位十六岁的少年去拜访一位年长的智者。 他问：「我如何才能变成一个自己愉快、也能够给别人愉快的人呢？ 智者笑着望着他说：「孩子，在你这个年龄有这样的愿望，已经是很难得了。 很多比你年长很多的人，从他们问的问题本身就可以看出，不管给他们多少解释，都不可能让他们明白真正重要的道理，就只好让他们那样好了。 少年满怀虔诚地听着，脸上没有流露出丝毫得意之色。 智者接着说：我送给你四句话。 第一句话是：把自己当成别人。 你能说说这句话的含义吗？ 少年回答说：是不是说，在我感到痛苦忧伤的时候，就把自己当成是别人，这样痛苦就自然减轻了；当我欣喜若狂之时，把自己当成别人，那些狂喜也会变得平和中正一些？ 智者微微点头！ 接着说，第二句话：把别人当成自己。 少年沈思一会儿，说：这样就可以真正同情别人的不幸，理解别人的需求，并且在别人需要的时候，给予恰当的帮助？ 智者两眼发光，继续说。 第三句话：把别人当成别人。 少年说：这句话的意思是不是说，要充分地尊重每个人的独立性，在任何情形下，都不可侵犯他人的核心领地？ 智者哈哈大笑：很好，很好。孺子可教也！ 第四句话是：把自己当成自己。 这句话理解起来太难了，留着你以后慢慢品味吧。 少年说：这句话的含义，我是一时体会不出。但这四句话之间就有许多自相矛盾之处，我用什么才能把它们统一起来呢？ 智者说：很简单，用一生的时间和经历。 少年沈默了很久，然后叩首告别。 后来少年变成了壮年人，又变成了老人。 再后来在他离开这个世界很久以后，人们都还时时提到他的名字。 人们都说他是一位智者，因为他是一个愉快的人，而且也给每一个见到过他的人带来了愉快。 |
